“Do you want to become an executive officer in the government sector?”
Not long ago, I had dinner with my father’s former employer — a highly successful businesswoman with a powerful network across Hong Kong and mainland China.
Midway through the meal, she learned I was unemployed. Without missing a beat, she offered to help: “Do you want to become an Executive Officer (EO)?”
For anyone unfamiliar with the role, an Executive Officer is a standard entry-level position in the Hong Kong civil service. Although it’s an entry post, the pay is excellent: HK$35,080 per month (roughly US$4,476), plus medical insurance and strong benefits. For a fresh graduate like me, the salary felt life-changing.
The money would have instantly allowed me to achieve several major goals at once — moving out on my own, saving aggressively, and funding my future studies.
Yet after just a split-second of hesitation, I looked at her and replied: “Thank you, but I know very clearly that I don’t want to work in the government system.”
She smiled warmly and encouraged me: “You can give yourself a chance. Think about it first.”
Even though I was still jobless at the time, my answer came from a place of deep clarity. I knew I didn’t belong in the government culture or environment. Yes, the salary was incredibly tempting, and I desperately needed the money. But I couldn’t ignore the hidden costs:
- The golden handcuffs: I’m not a naturally proactive person. I feared I would get too comfortable and never find the courage to leave.
- The network risk: This woman has strong connections in Hong Kong and mainland China. If anything went wrong, it could create complications later.
- The fundamental mismatch: I simply wasn’t comfortable working inside a bureaucratic government system.
The long-term cost felt far too heavy to bear. So, despite being unemployed, I politely turned down the offer.
That single moment taught me one of the most important lessons of my life:
Sometimes, knowing what you don’t want is far more valuable than chasing what you think you desire.
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