Day 7: A relaxing day and letting go the urge to change other people

I didn’t know there were so many decorations on the streets in Hong Kong.

Sai Ying Pun

Apart from preparing for the interviews on Friday, I had plenty of time to explore the world around me.

At first, I planned to hit the gym. But I changed my mind in the last minute.

I just didn’t feel like going today.

While I was walking down the street, an incident happened two days ago emerged in my mind.

My mum is working in a company with a very toxic work culture. It was so toxic that she had difficulties to sleep and had a lot of health problems.

Seeing how much she’s struggling, my father and I offered her many suggestions—including resigning from her current job, since we’re not short on money.

Despite that, she refused to take any of them.

I had one more idea: encouraging her to join me for my next counseling session to help reduce her fear

She said she was too busy.

I shared the outcome with my counselor. My counselor told me that I can’t change or influence my mum’s decision. Therefore, I have to learn how to accept the fact that my mum is not willing to stop her suffering.

This is her choice. All I can do is respect her will.

Latest update:

  • Photography practice
  • Finished the power point slides for a sharing session

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